Thursday, 23 August 2018

My August Reflections [Adventist Women Ministries Annual Retreat]





August has really been a beautiful month for me. I thank God for reaching out to me in a special way. And I had such a deep, personal, reviving experience with God when I went to the annual Adventist Women’s Ministries retreat which takes place around 9th-12th of August. So, prior to the whole experience I really felt stuck- particularly with regards to my life direction and career. It got to a point where I just stopped trying and I really didn’t care. I felt I had ‘tried’ and I just got so defeated that all that I had left was my confusion. To add on that was my constant fear for the future. My fear stemmed from the fact that my dream of becoming independent had not come into fruition and when I continued to reflect, I just felt overwhelmed. I think this had been happening for the past year or so too. But through all of this, I kept praying, asking God to show me what path to take, encourage me, just anything.

And God really came through for me when I attended the retreat. The retreat is arranged in such a way that you have accommodation which you arrange as a church. Then there are various sessions that deal with a lot of women-related issues that are in the ministry. But I’ll delve on that on upcoming blog posts. So, when I attended I had so many questions with regards to how to deal with socio-related issues, but mostly personal issues. And the one thing I am grateful for is that everything that was said was so relevant that I could truly hear God speak to me personally and answering each question I had. In fact, God exceeded my expectations by going a little bit further and answering questions I didn’t even know I had. He even went so far as revealing things in my heart that I was not even aware of. Like David I can testify that God ‘triest the heart’. And truly God is ‘able to do exceeding abundantly all that we (I) ask or think.

I think because of my failure with attaining independence I unconsciously adopted the dependency mentality- where I was giving into the idea that someone was just going to save me or give me a job. But God in His mercy sent Doctor Mweemba who was one of the speakers to reach out to me. His talk was titled ‘Start Happening’ and it was spot on. Have you ever heard God speak to you such that all you could do was sigh? Ever been exposed such that all you could do was to give praise to God? That was my experience. I love how God deals with us through the Holy Spirit. I love the fact that when we are down and hopeless, God does not discourage us further. Instead, He inspires us with new zeal to try again and be encouraged. Such a gentle, loving God we serve! At this point, I didn’t need a lecture on how I had wasted time. I had done that enough. And I am so thankful to God for dealing with me lovingly.

The talk was essentially awakening us to the fact that we are each blessed with capabilities for success. More so, we have been created equally and those who make a success out of their lives have not been given superior capabilities. What I really got from the session was the need to take charge of my life. I had stopped trying and I started to blame things on circumstances. But I left there knowing that it’s all in my hands and I had to rightly use the power of choice that God has given me.
There was also a monologue that was read each day over and over again. It’s found in 2 Timothy 1:1-18. One verse particularly stood out for me- since it had a solution for what I had been struggling with for years.

verse7: For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.

And ever since then, each day has been an experience of trusting, of knowing that I can do ALL things in Christ through the power of His might.

To top this whole experience was the beautiful scenery all around- the mountains, the greens, the beautiful houses…essentially everything. It made me miss Cape Town a bit. I also loved the rondavel we stayed in. I hope to visit again soon :).

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