My conclusion with regards to relationships is:
It is better to wait till you know exactly what you want BEFORE entering into a relationship.It saves you a lot of time and helps you not to triffle with one's heart
Take time to know God,to serve him,to know yourself,to figure out what you want,to achieve your goals so that by the time you get into a relationship you know what you want and you don't have to go 'searching' for what you want. I believe as Adam spent some time with God before meeting Eve,it is crucial to know God ourselves before meeting our spouses.
It is also important to examine our motives behind seeking marriage.We shouldn't marry because we want to be made 'complete' or because we are scared to be lonely.The purpose of getting into a relationship shouldn't be to fulfill our desires,but we should consider whether a relationship is God's will for us and whether the relationship will be good for us spiritually and whether it would allow us to fulfill our calling.
"Before accepting a proposal from a man wearing trousers,you should accept the proposal of a man in a robe (Jesus)",said a dear sister.
It is better to wait till you know exactly what you want BEFORE entering into a relationship.It saves you a lot of time and helps you not to triffle with one's heart
Take time to know God,to serve him,to know yourself,to figure out what you want,to achieve your goals so that by the time you get into a relationship you know what you want and you don't have to go 'searching' for what you want. I believe as Adam spent some time with God before meeting Eve,it is crucial to know God ourselves before meeting our spouses.
It is also important to examine our motives behind seeking marriage.We shouldn't marry because we want to be made 'complete' or because we are scared to be lonely.The purpose of getting into a relationship shouldn't be to fulfill our desires,but we should consider whether a relationship is God's will for us and whether the relationship will be good for us spiritually and whether it would allow us to fulfill our calling.
"Before accepting a proposal from a man wearing trousers,you should accept the proposal of a man in a robe (Jesus)",said a dear sister.
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