I think we grow up thinking parents are perfect and of
course they are supposed to be exemplary. Unfortunately, some are not. Not only
are they not exemplary but they do not change for the better. And this really
brings heaviness to the soul. As I continue to observe my parents and that of
others, I have concluded that it is well for me to respect my parents. But I’ve
learnt that they are not always right and sometimes their wishes for me go against
my own conscience. But what I’ve observed is that mothers tend to be the better
parent while the father just …oh well. I’ve personally concluded that
parenthood is not for those who are not repenting and gaining victory over sin
on a daily basis. It’s also not for people who are not transparent. I just
think one has to think thoroughly before having a child; consider how they will
contribute positively in all the facets of the child’s life. There’s much to
consider because the child’s life will be affected immensely for the good or
for the worst; save the grace of God. I also am learning that the PARENT-CHILD
relationship requires effort from both parties. But it’s not easy, especially
with us Black folks. It’s rare to have a relationship where you can freely
share every aspect of your life without shame or feeling that you’re disrespectful.
To be continued.
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